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Thursday, April 06, 2006

A Different Despedida Party

as i've said in my previous entry, i love to think. and the other day, while i was walking home, i thought of what i would do if for example the doctor will tell me that i only have just a month or two to live. of course i will go to confession.. a very serious confession. telling all my sins, and no holds barred. honestly, now when i go to a confession, i still hesitate to tell some. even if i don't know the priest, i still feel embarassed.
then i would hold despedida parties for myself. hehe. this party won't be a crying session but a real party. of course, still potluck. i have to save money for my wake and cremation. hehe. i would text/email/friendster all of my friends, close friends, not-so-close friends, acquaintances, supposedly future friends. everyone who would like to join. this could be a one day event or the party could be categorized on where i met them.
why a party? because i don't want to have pity on me and because i want my friends to remember until the end as the happy person. :D

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

am i invited? hehe... lol..

dont overthink ayt? its good to contemplate about life sometimes... but not to the extent of stressing yourself... and not while you're walking...you might get robbed, get bumped by a vehicle, or end-up in a manhole.:))

just enjoy life tin, there's a thin line between thinking too hard and worrying... and you know that worrying is a sin... hehe.. i am getting nowhere... and this comment is becoming a post...

hehe... till then beautiful bored employees... bwahehehe...

Anonymous said...

i was supposed to ask if im invited too. naunahan ako ni plong. but what if you could only invite one guest, will you choose me or plong?

ano ha? ano???

anyway, feeling ko pag nasa coffin ka na naka-smile ka pa rin tapos mumultuhin mo ako at magtatanong ka parin kung kamusta ang lovelife ko na hindi naman talaga nageexist :)

mwah!

tin-tin said...

are you two invited? hmmm... syempre noh! that's not a question anymore. acquaintances are invited, what more kayo?!

plong: nice post. este comment pala. thanks also for your concern. i love to walk coz i can think of a lot of things. and don't worry, while thinking, i'm still aware of my surroundings. and am not worrying. am just planning ahead. hehe.

iyna: i'll have two different parties for both of you to be able to come. iyna, patay na ako at lahat, non-existent pa din lovelife mo?! sobra na yun ha! ;p

Anonymous said...

awww... ang bait talaga ni tin :) hehehe.

sabi ko nga diba, mamatay ako na single. :)

Anonymous said...

mga abno... bwahaha,,,

sila sila rin ang nagcocomment sa blog

sila sila rin ang nagkikita sa alumni homecoming

sila sila rin ang magkatext

hay... sila sila rin ang magkikita sa galera...

kamusta naman yon?

Anonymous said...

bakit si ainah lang ang me gift?

ang sad...

tin-tin said...

iyna: at paninindigan mo naman na mamatay kang single?!!?

plong: teka! at anong sila sila din lang ang magkikita sa galera?!?! kasama ka sa galera ha!!

yung gift mo? ano ba gusto mong bday gift? ipagdadasal ko rin na matanggao mo yun. hehe. pero text mo saken or whatever yung gusto mong bday gift, ok?

Abaniko said...

I wish every month-end your doc's gonna tell you you're to die within a month then we party each day, month after month after month.... Great life! :)

tin-tin said...

abaniko: a great and expensive life. hehehe ;p